Reviews & Quotes

Library Journal | Virginia Johnson, East Bridgewater Public Library 
"A truly thought-provoking documentary, simultaneously uplifting and devastatingly honest. Valuable to those on the autism spectrum, their caretakers, and all who work with them."

Video Librarian ★★★
Aud: C, P. (C. Cassady)
"Filmmaker Matt Fuller’s sensitive documentary examines three individuals on the autism spectrum and their approaches (or lack of) to romantic relationships. St. Paul-based Stephen was in a 20-year marriage with a more outgoing autistic woman, Gita; now she is suffering from terminal cancer, and—as Stephen watches game shows with his elderly parents—it is somewhat uncertain how much he relates to his impending loss. In Los Angeles, jobless, sports-trivia-spouting Lenny has only vague and largely inappropriate contact with the opposite sex. He is so lonely that, at one point during a breakdown, the film crew weeps along with him. Virginia-based Lindsay and Dave (a scientist)—cohabiting for eight years—are so high-functioning that it is difficult to imagine either one as disabled (Dave even asks that the camera not intrude on their more intimate moments, making him more sensible than many so-called normal interviewees). But Lindsay is uneasy over Dave’s longstanding refusal to commit to a formal engagement. No white lab-coated experts are on hand here to preside over the dramas (although parents seemingly parrot the words of doctors). The sweet but decidedly fuzzy lesson is that autistic adults can form permanent domestic partnerships—except for those who can’t. Recommended."

Shippensburg University | Allison C. Carey, Ph.D. Director, Interdisciplinary Minor in Disability Studies
"Students at Shippensburg University greatly enjoyed this film. Autism in Love provided a window into the diverse ways that love manifests in our lives, shed light on the broad capacity for love and human connection, and helped us consider the struggles people face in finding love in a society that too often devalues people with autism. Students really connected with the people in the film, rooting for their success and crying at their losses. These intimate portrayals helped students see both the many similarities among people as well as the unique struggles and abilities in forming relationships. We thank all of the people involved in making the filming for sharing their lives with us."

Huffington Post | Maddie Crum
"As Fuller’s touching film demonstrates, there’s ample hope for those on the spectrum to build a steady, loving relationship. As Wang puts it, “the most important message is that people with autism both love, and want to be loved.”